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How Can I Launch My Child Into Adulthood?

How Can I Launch My Child Into Adulthood?

The Arc envisions that adults with disabilities lives should parallel the lives of people without disabilities as their transition from school into the adult world.  As a step towards independence, it is natural for individuals to make their own life decisions and have their family and natural supports guide them, but not be their sole support network.

Support Coordinators are trained as employment specialists and professional community navigators who partner with families as their adult children's journeys to the real world begin.  Support Coordinators take on all the clinical responsibilities that come along with accessing state services.  Families do not need to navigate the maze of meaningful days, locating and maintaining employment, accessing benefits and housing, and building a team of direct coaches alone.

"Our family is forever grateful to The Arc.  They have been so instrumental in supporting my children, Mark and Ayanna through life's journey of transitioning from the school setting to the adult world with such ease.  They have assisted them in maintaining with meaningful jobs and instilling the necessary skills to live independently, which my son has done for 10 years now, and I hope my daughter will soon follow in her brother's footsteps.  They have also connected them with and provided opportunities to enhance their social and advocacy skills.  Thank you for everything that you do for us!"

- Erica Cooke

The Arc's individualized services follow the natural rhythm of life.  Incorporating self-determination and employment first practices, a primary transition service is continuing the investment of a person's public education and locating a job that matches the person's skills, passions, and interests.  Job development and customized training are complemented by partnering with colleges so people with disabilities can maximize employment opportunities.  Being a part of a college campus is also important because it allows friendships from school to advance to a next level of connection as young adults learn to navigate real life together.

Work and college are also places where parents should step into the background ad allow their adult child to maneuver life without them by their side.  Having a job, going to college, and maintaining a social life promotes equity among siblings as well.  The dignity of having a life that mirrors one's peers, especially their brothers and sisters, is important because the person with a disability gains respect for their own accomplishments and contributions to their communities.  The family shifting from constant care-giving, while other supports are introduced, is crucial as it prevents eventual burnout and promotes independence for the person.

Allowing for separation and independence in constant thought-out steps is critical.  A sudden change or crisis without an advocate can limit choice if the state is tasked with offering support in a reactive way.  Allow The Arc to partner with you in advance.  Contact Aaron Stephens at astephens@arcfc.org or (301) 663-0909 x126 as your adult child continues on their journey.

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